buddy icons | banners | suit of lights photos buddy icons AIM / TRILLIAN >>> left mouse click on them; this will automatically set it as your icon. click "OK" when it asks you if you really want to change your Buddy Icon. You'll then be taken to the Buddy Icon portion of the preferences, where you can verify that you chose this icon. APPLE iCHAT >>> control-click on the image, and select Copy Image to Clipboard from the pop-up menu. Then, in the iChat buddy list window, click on the current buddy icon in the top right, and select Paste from the Edit menu. banners (click on the thumnail to see full photo)